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Can I Collect Ex-Spouse Social Security and My Own? Separating Fact from Fiction

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According to the Social Security Administration, if you qualify for benefits on both your own work record and a former spouse's, you will not receive two separate checks. This critical rule directly addresses the question: Can I collect ex-spouse Social Security and my own? and is the foundation for understanding how divorced spousal benefits work. Your final monthly benefit will be the higher of the two amounts you are eligible for, not a combination of both.

Quick Summary

Divorced individuals cannot receive Social Security benefits from their own work record and their ex-spouse's simultaneously. The Social Security Administration automatically pays the higher of the two benefits for which you are eligible, provided you meet key requirements such as a 10-year marriage and being unmarried. For certain birth years, a specific filing strategy existed to maximize benefits.

Key Points

  • Single Highest Benefit: The Social Security Administration will pay you the highest benefit for which you qualify, based on either your own work record or your ex-spouse's, not a combination of both.

  • 10-Year Marriage Rule: To be eligible for divorced spousal benefits, you must have been married for at least 10 years and be currently unmarried.

  • Your Ex is Unaffected: Claiming a benefit on your ex-spouse's record does not reduce the amount of benefits they receive.

  • Claiming Independence: You do not need your ex-spouse's permission to apply for or receive divorced spousal benefits, and they will not be notified.

  • File and Suspend Loophole Closed: The strategy allowing people to collect an ex-spouse's benefit while their own grew has been eliminated for most people born after 1954.

  • Survivor Benefits Flexibility: If your ex-spouse is deceased, you may be eligible for a higher survivor benefit and, in some cases, can switch from a survivor benefit to your own higher retirement benefit later.

  • Application Process: You can apply online, by phone, or in person at a Social Security office and will need documents such as your divorce decree and marriage certificate.

In This Article

How the Social Security Administration Handles Dual Eligibility

It is a common misconception that individuals can receive both their own Social Security benefit and a divorced spouse benefit simultaneously, sometimes referred to as “double-dipping”. In reality, the Social Security Administration (SSA) will calculate your eligibility based on your own earnings and the amount you could receive as a divorced spouse (which is up to 50% of your ex-spouse's primary insurance amount). You will then be paid the higher of these two calculated amounts. This applies to both living and deceased ex-spouses, though survivor benefit calculations differ.

Key Requirements for Collecting Divorced Spousal Benefits

Eligibility for divorced spousal benefits depends on meeting several specific criteria:

  • Marriage Duration: The marriage must have lasted at least 10 years.
  • Marital Status: You must be currently unmarried, unless you are applying for survivor benefits and remarried after age 60 (or 50 if disabled).
  • Age: You must be at least 62 years old.
  • Benefit Comparison: Your own Social Security benefit must be lower than the benefit you would receive based on your ex-spouse's record.
  • Ex-Spouse Eligibility: Your ex-spouse must be eligible for Social Security retirement or disability benefits, even if they are not currently collecting them.
  • Divorce Period: If your ex-spouse has not yet filed for their benefits, you must have been divorced for at least two years to claim benefits on their record.

The "File and Suspend" Loophole (Now Eliminated)

A strategy called "file and suspend" previously allowed some individuals to claim a spousal benefit while their own retirement benefit continued to grow. This option was eliminated for those born on or after January 2, 1954, by the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015. Now, filing for any Social Security benefit means you are filing for all eligible benefits, and the SSA will pay the highest amount. However, surviving divorced spouses still have the flexibility to claim a survivor benefit first and potentially switch to a higher retirement benefit later.

Comparing Your Own vs. Ex-Spouse's Benefits

Understanding the differences between your own and ex-spouse benefits is vital. The table below outlines key distinctions:

Feature Your Own Benefit (Based on Earnings Record) Divorced Spousal Benefit Survivor Benefit (Deceased Ex-Spouse)
Calculation Based on your highest 35 years of earnings. Up to 50% of your ex-spouse's full retirement age benefit. Up to 100% of your deceased ex-spouse's full retirement age benefit.
Effect of Remarriage Unaffected by your marital status. Generally ends eligibility, unless remarriage happens after age 60 (or 50 if disabled). Remarriage after age 60 (or 50 if disabled) does not affect eligibility.
Early Claiming Permanently reduced if claimed before Full Retirement Age (FRA). Permanently reduced if claimed before FRA. Permanently reduced if claimed before FRA, but at a higher rate than spousal benefits.
Maximum Benefit Grows by Delayed Retirement Credits up to age 70. Reaches its maximum at your FRA. Does not increase past this point. Depends on your age at filing and the deceased's benefit amount.
Ex-Spouse's Action Independent of your ex-spouse's decisions. Your ex-spouse does not need to be collecting benefits for you to claim, provided you have been divorced for 2 years. You can file for survivor benefits even if your ex hadn't started collecting.

How to Apply for Divorced Spouse Benefits

Applying for divorced spousal benefits does not require your ex-spouse's consent or involvement, and they will not be informed by the SSA. You can apply online, by phone, or at a local Social Security office.

To apply, you will typically need several documents:

  • Your Social Security number
  • Proof of age
  • Proof of citizenship or lawful alien status
  • Your marriage certificate
  • Your final divorce decree
  • Your ex-spouse's Social Security number or other identifying information (the SSA can help if you don't have it)

Providing these documents will help the SSA determine your eligibility and ensure you receive the highest benefit amount you are due.

Conclusion

While the answer to "Can I collect ex-spouse Social Security and my own?" is no, the Social Security program ensures you receive the single highest benefit for which you are eligible. This is particularly beneficial for those whose own work history would result in a lower benefit than they could receive based on an ex-spouse's record. By understanding the eligibility criteria, such as the 10-year marriage rule and being unmarried, and following the application process, you can maximize your retirement income. Importantly, claiming benefits on your ex-spouse's record does not impact their benefit amount.

For additional details on eligibility and applying, consult the official Social Security Administration website.

Frequently Asked Questions

No, you cannot receive both benefits at the same time. The Social Security Administration automatically pays the single highest benefit you are eligible for, which may be based on your own earnings or up to 50% of your ex-spouse's.

If your benefit based on your own work record is higher than the spousal benefit based on your ex's record, you will receive your own higher benefit amount. You do not receive the ex-spouse benefit in this case.

No, your decision to collect benefits on your ex-spouse's record has absolutely no effect on their monthly payment. The SSA calculates your payment separately.

You can still collect divorced spousal benefits if your ex is eligible for retirement benefits and you have been divorced for at least two years. Your ex does not need to have filed for their own benefits.

The "file and suspend" strategy allowed a person to claim a spousal benefit while their own retirement benefit grew, but it was eliminated for most people by 2015. Anyone born after January 1, 1954, must now file for all eligible benefits at once.

No. You do not need your ex-spouse's permission, nor will the SSA notify them that you have applied. You will need their name, date of birth, and possibly their Social Security number to file, but the SSA can assist if you don't know it.

If your ex-spouse dies, and you meet the eligibility criteria, you may be able to receive a higher survivor benefit, which can be up to 100% of their benefit. You can also switch from a lower survivor benefit to your own higher retirement benefit later.

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Medical Disclaimer

This content is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider regarding personal health decisions.