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Can you collect your deceased spouse's Social Security and your own?

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According to the Social Security Administration, over 3.7 million widows and widowers received survivor benefits as of February 2025. Facing financial decisions during a time of loss is difficult, and a common question is: Can you collect your deceased spouse's Social Security and your own?

Quick Summary

You cannot collect both a deceased spouse's and your own Social Security benefit simultaneously, but you will receive the higher of the two amounts. A common strategy allows you to strategically claim one benefit early while allowing the other to grow, maximizing your total lifetime income.

Key Points

  • One at a Time: You can only receive the higher of two benefits—survivor or your own retirement—not both combined.

  • Strategic Claiming: A common strategy is to collect one benefit early while allowing the other, potentially larger, benefit to grow.

  • Maximizing Your Own Benefit: Your personal retirement benefit increases up to age 70 with delayed retirement credits, making it a valuable tool to maximize.

  • Remarriage Rules: If you remarry before age 60 (or 50 if disabled), you may forfeit eligibility for survivor benefits, though some exceptions apply.

  • Application Method: You must contact the Social Security Administration by phone or in person to apply for survivor benefits, as online applications are not accepted.

  • Maximum Payout: To maximize your lifetime income, it is essential to compare your survivor benefit at its full retirement age with your own retirement benefit at age 70.

In This Article

Understanding Survivor vs. Retirement Benefits

When a spouse passes away, the surviving partner often faces complex financial questions. Social Security benefits are paid out based on two different circumstances: a worker's own earnings record and the record of a deceased spouse. It is a common misconception that you can add or combine these two benefits.

The 'Higher of the Two' Rule

Instead of receiving both benefits, the Social Security Administration (SSA) will pay you the single highest amount for which you are eligible. This rule ensures you receive the maximum payment available to you at any given time, though it requires strategic planning to maximize your lifetime income.

Can You Switch Benefits?

Unlike standard retirement benefits, survivor benefits allow for a strategic claiming maneuver. You are permitted to collect one benefit first, then switch to the other later if it becomes the more advantageous option. This flexibility can be a powerful tool for maximizing your lifetime Social Security income.

A Strategic Approach to Maximizing Benefits

Depending on your age and the relative value of each potential benefit, the optimal strategy will differ. A wise approach involves using one benefit as a bridge while the other grows to its maximum potential.

Claiming Survivor Benefits First

This strategy is particularly beneficial if your deceased spouse was the higher earner and their benefit will eventually be larger than yours. It works as follows:

  • Claim reduced survivor benefits early. You can begin collecting survivor benefits as early as age 60 (or 50 if disabled). The benefit will be reduced for claiming early, but it provides immediate income.
  • Allow your own retirement benefits to grow. While you are receiving the survivor benefit, you can delay claiming your own retirement benefit. Your own benefit continues to grow until age 70, thanks to delayed retirement credits.
  • Switch to your own benefit at age 70. At age 70, you switch to your maximized retirement benefit, which is now higher than your survivor benefit. This ensures a larger monthly payout for the rest of your life.

Claiming Your Own Benefits First

This option works best if your own benefit will eventually be larger than your survivor benefit, or if you need income sooner. The steps are similar:

  • Start your own retirement benefit. You can start collecting your own retirement benefit as early as age 62.
  • Wait to claim the survivor benefit. You delay claiming the survivor benefit until your full retirement age for survivors, when it reaches its maximum amount.
  • Switch to the survivor benefit. At the appropriate time, you switch to the survivor benefit if it is larger than the one you are currently collecting.

Comparing Your Options: Survivor vs. Retirement Benefits

To help clarify the differences and potential strategies, the following table compares key aspects of these two types of Social Security benefits.

Feature Survivor Benefits Your Own Retirement Benefits
Eligibility Age As early as age 60 (or 50 if disabled). As early as age 62.
Benefit Calculation A percentage of your deceased spouse's benefit amount. The percentage varies based on when you claim. Based on your own lifetime earnings record.
Benefit Growth Does not increase beyond the survivor's full retirement age. Increases with delayed retirement credits up to age 70.
Remarriage Impact Can terminate eligibility if remarried before age 60 (or 50 if disabled). No impact.
Switching Benefit Can be claimed first, then switch to a potentially higher retirement benefit later. Can be claimed first, but there are limitations on switching to spousal/survivor benefits.

Important Factors Affecting Your Decision

Several personal factors should be considered when deciding on your claiming strategy. Consulting with a financial advisor or the SSA is recommended to understand your specific circumstances.

  • Age and Full Retirement Age: The timing of your claim, both for survivor and retirement benefits, heavily influences the monthly amount you receive. For survivors, the full retirement age for survivor benefits is often different from the one for retirement benefits.
  • Earnings Limit: If you are still working and claiming a benefit before your full retirement age, your earnings could temporarily reduce your monthly payments. This limit disappears once you reach your full retirement age.
  • Life Expectancy: If you have a family history of longevity, delaying benefits to receive the maximum amount for as long as possible may be the most prudent choice. Conversely, if you have health concerns, claiming earlier might make more sense.
  • Financial Needs: Your immediate cash flow needs are a critical factor. If you need income right away, taking a reduced benefit early may be your only option.

The Application Process

To claim survivor benefits, you must contact the Social Security Administration directly by phone or visit a local office. You cannot apply for survivor benefits online. If you are already receiving spousal benefits, the SSA will automatically convert them to survivor benefits after your spouse's death is reported.

Necessary Documentation

When you apply for benefits, you will likely need to provide several documents, including proof of death, your and your deceased spouse's Social Security numbers, your birth certificate, your marriage certificate, and your deceased spouse's W-2s or tax return for the most recent year.

For more detailed information on survivors benefits, refer to the official SSA guide on survivors benefits.

Conclusion

While you cannot collect your deceased spouse's Social Security and your own at the same time, careful and strategic planning can maximize your lifetime benefits. By understanding the 'higher of the two' rule and the flexibility to switch benefits, you can make an informed decision that best suits your financial situation. Considering factors like your age, earnings, and financial needs is key to navigating this complex system. The most crucial first step is to contact the SSA to understand your specific options and how to proceed.

Frequently Asked Questions

No, the Social Security Administration will pay you the single highest benefit you are eligible for, not a combination of both.

You can begin collecting reduced survivor benefits as early as age 60, or as early as 50 if you are disabled.

You can create a 'my Social Security' account online or call the SSA directly to get estimates for both your own retirement benefit and the survivor benefit based on your deceased spouse's earnings.

Yes, this is a common strategy. You can collect a survivor benefit and allow your own retirement benefit to continue to grow until a later age, such as 70, before switching.

It depends on your age. If you remarry after age 60 (or age 50 if disabled), your survivor benefits are not affected. If you remarry before age 60, you will lose your eligibility.

Yes, a one-time payment of $255 may be available to a surviving spouse or eligible children. You must apply for this payment.

The SSA will require documents such as proof of death, your Social Security number, your spouse's Social Security number, your marriage certificate, and your birth certificate.

Medical Disclaimer

This content is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider regarding personal health decisions.