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Can a Divorced Woman Collect Her Ex-Husband's Social Security?

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According to the Social Security Administration, more than 80% of divorced spousal beneficiaries aged 62 or older are women. This statistic highlights the relevance of a common question: Can a divorced woman collect her ex-husband's Social Security? Understanding the rules is crucial for financial stability in retirement.

Quick Summary

A divorced woman can potentially collect Social Security benefits based on her ex-husband's earnings record, provided she meets specific eligibility criteria. These benefits do not affect her ex-husband's own payments or those of his new spouse, and she will receive the higher of her own benefit or the spousal benefit for which she is eligible.

Key Points

  • 10-Year Marriage Rule: To collect on an ex-spouse's record, the marriage must have lasted at least 10 years.

  • Current Marital Status: You must be currently unmarried to collect divorced spousal benefits, with exceptions for survivor benefits.

  • Age Requirement: You must be at least 62 years old to start receiving benefits based on your ex-husband's record.

  • Higher Benefit Payment: The Social Security Administration will pay you the higher of your own benefit or the one based on your ex-husband's record, not both.

  • No Impact on Ex-Spouse: Your collection of benefits on your ex-spouse's record will not reduce or affect his payments or those of his new spouse.

  • Survivor Benefits: If your ex-husband dies, you may be eligible for a higher, full survivor benefit (up to 100%) as a surviving divorced spouse.

In This Article

Eligibility Requirements for Divorced Spouse Benefits

To determine if you qualify to collect Social Security on your ex-husband's record, you must meet several criteria set forth by the Social Security Administration (SSA).

Key Requirements

  • Your marriage must have lasted for a minimum of 10 years. If you were married multiple times for at least 10 years each, you can choose the higher benefit from one ex-spouse but not combine them.
  • You must be currently unmarried. Remarriage generally prevents collection unless that marriage ends.
  • You must be at least 62 years old. Collecting before your full retirement age (FRA) will result in a permanent reduction.
  • Your ex-husband must be eligible for Social Security retirement or disability benefits. He does not need to have filed, but if he hasn't, you must have been divorced for at least two years to collect.

How Benefits are Calculated and Paid

The SSA determines your benefit based on your own earnings record and your ex-husband's record, and you will receive the higher of the two amounts. You do not receive both.

Benefit Amount

A divorced spouse is typically entitled to a benefit equal to 50% of the ex-spouse's full retirement benefit at your full retirement age. Starting benefits early permanently reduces this amount. Your collecting does not impact your ex-husband's benefit or his new spouse's.

Special Situations for Divorced Spouse Benefits

Surviving Divorced Spouse Benefits

If your ex-husband dies, you may be eligible for a surviving divorced spouse's benefit, which can be up to 100% of his full retirement benefit. You can collect survivor benefits as early as age 60, or 50 if disabled. Remarrying after age 60 does not affect survivor benefit eligibility.

Application Process Note

The file-and-suspend strategy for maximizing spousal benefits was largely eliminated for those who turned 62 on or after January 2, 2016. Now, a single application activates all eligible benefits, and the SSA pays the highest amount automatically.

How to Apply for Benefits

Applying can be done online, by phone, or at an SSA office.

Information needed to apply typically includes:

  • Your and your ex-spouse's Social Security numbers and birth dates.
  • Dates of marriage and divorce.
  • Location of marriage.
  • Bank information for direct deposit.

Key Points on Application:

  • The SSA does not inform your ex-spouse that you have filed.
  • Any clause in a divorce decree attempting to waive your right to Social Security benefits is invalid if the marriage met the 10-year rule.

Comparison of Standard vs. Divorced Spousal Benefits

Feature Standard Spousal Benefits Divorced Spousal Benefits
Marital Status Must be currently married to the worker. Must be currently unmarried. Remarriage after age 60 (or 50 if disabled and receiving survivor benefits) is permitted.
Duration of Marriage One-year marriage rule applies (exceptions exist for parents and other specific situations). Must have been married for a minimum of 10 years.
Worker Status Worker must be collecting benefits. Worker must be eligible (age 62+), but does not need to be collecting, if divorced for 2+ years.
Impact on Worker's Benefit Does not affect the worker's benefit amount. Does not affect the ex-worker's benefit amount.
Amount at FRA Up to 50% of the worker's full retirement benefit. Up to 50% of the ex-worker's full retirement benefit.
Survivor Benefit Eligible for up to 100% of the worker's benefit upon death. Eligible for up to 100% of the ex-worker's benefit upon death (survivor rules apply).

Conclusion: Secure Your Retirement Income

Yes, a divorced woman can collect her ex-husband's Social Security if she meets the specific requirements, including the 10-year marriage rule, age, and being currently unmarried. This benefit is an important resource for retirement planning. To understand your specific eligibility and potential benefit amounts, consult the official Social Security Administration website: www.ssa.gov.

How to get started with collecting your benefits

Begin by gathering documents related to your marriage and divorce. You can apply online, by phone, or in person. Using the SSA's benefit calculator can help estimate potential payments. Contacting the SSA directly is recommended for personalized guidance.

Frequently Asked Questions

No, your ex-husband does not need to be collecting his benefits for you to apply, as long as he is eligible (typically age 62 or older) and you have been divorced for at least two years. If you have been divorced for less than two years, he must be collecting benefits for you to receive them.

Yes, your ex-husband's remarriage does not affect your eligibility for benefits based on his record. Your collection of benefits will not reduce the amount he or his new wife receives.

If you remarry, your benefits based on your ex-spouse's record will stop. However, if your later marriage ends (by death, divorce, or annulment), you may once again become eligible for benefits based on your first ex-spouse's record, provided you meet the other requirements.

Yes. A divorced spouse benefit is paid while your ex-husband is alive and is typically up to 50% of his full retirement amount. A surviving divorced spouse benefit is paid after his death and can be up to 100% of his full retirement amount.

No, the Social Security Administration maintains strict confidentiality. They will not notify either you or your ex-husband when one of you files for benefits based on the other's record.

While it's helpful to have his Social Security number, you can still apply without it. The SSA can often find his record if you provide his birth date and the names of his parents.

If your own benefit is higher, the SSA will pay you that amount. You cannot collect both; you will receive the single, highest benefit for which you are eligible.

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Medical Disclaimer

This content is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider regarding personal health decisions.