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Can a Family Member Take Over a Reverse Mortgage? Understanding Your Options

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According to the National Reverse Mortgage Lenders Association (NRMLA), over 1.2 million homeowners have utilized a reverse mortgage since 1990. When a reverse mortgage borrower passes away or permanently moves out, the loan typically becomes due and payable. This raises a crucial question for many families: Can a family member take over a reverse mortgage? The answer is nuanced, depending on several factors, including the family member's relationship to the borrower and their financial capacity.

Quick Summary

The process for a family member to manage a reverse mortgage after the borrower's death or relocation depends on their status as an eligible non-borrowing spouse or an heir. Options include repaying the loan, selling the home, or, for eligible spouses, remaining in the home under specific conditions.

Key Points

  • Eligible Non-Borrowing Spouse: Can remain in the home under specific conditions after the borrower's death without repaying the HECM immediately.

  • Loan Maturity: A reverse mortgage becomes due when the last borrower dies or permanently moves out.

  • Heir Options: Heirs can repay the loan, sell the home, or deed the home to the lender to satisfy the debt.

  • Non-Recourse Feature: HECM heirs are protected; the amount due cannot exceed 95% of the home's appraised value (or the full loan balance, whichever is less).

  • Time Limit: Heirs typically have 6-12 months to settle the loan and must maintain property taxes and insurance during this period.

  • Professional Guidance: Consulting financial advisors, estate attorneys, or real estate agents is recommended.

  • Repaying the Loan: Allows heirs to retain the property by paying off the reverse mortgage.

In This Article

Understanding Reverse Mortgages and Their Maturity

A reverse mortgage is a type of loan that allows homeowners, typically 62 or older, to convert part of the equity in their home into cash. Unlike a traditional mortgage, where the homeowner makes monthly payments to the lender, with a reverse mortgage, the lender makes payments to the homeowner (or the homeowner takes a lump sum or line of credit). The loan balance grows over time as interest accrues and funds are advanced, becoming due and payable when the last borrower leaves the home permanently (e.g., sells the home, moves to a nursing home, or passes away).

The most common type of reverse mortgage is the Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM), insured by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA). HECMs have specific regulations regarding how they are handled upon maturity, which directly impacts whether a family member can "take over" the loan.

When Does a Reverse Mortgage Become Due and Payable?

A reverse mortgage becomes due and payable under several circumstances:

  • The borrower sells the home.
  • The home is no longer the borrower's primary residence. This includes moving into a nursing home or assisted living facility for more than 12 consecutive months.
  • The last surviving borrower passes away.
  • The borrower defaults on loan terms. This could include failing to pay property taxes, homeowner's insurance, or maintain the home.

Can a Family Member Take Over a Reverse Mortgage? The Role of an Eligible Non-Borrowing Spouse

For many years, if a reverse mortgage borrower passed away and their spouse was not also a borrower on the loan (an 'eligible non-borrowing spouse'), the loan became due, forcing the surviving spouse to either pay off the loan or sell the home. However, rules changed following the Housing and Economic Recovery Act of 2008 and subsequent FHA guidance, most notably Mortgagee Letter 2015-15.

Under current HECM rules, an eligible non-borrowing spouse can remain in the home after the borrower's death without having to immediately repay the reverse mortgage. To qualify, the spouse must meet specific criteria:

  • They must have been married to the borrower at the time the HECM was originated and remained married.
  • They must be named in the reverse mortgage documents as an eligible non-borrowing spouse.
  • They must have occupied, and continue to occupy, the property as their principal residence.
  • They must meet all other reverse mortgage obligations (e.g., pay property taxes, homeowner's insurance, maintain the home).

If these conditions are met, the eligible non-borrowing spouse can defer the loan's due and payable status. The loan continues to accrue interest, and funds cannot be drawn, but the spouse can remain in the home. Upon the death or departure of the eligible non-borrowing spouse, the loan will then become due and payable.

Options for Heirs (Non-Borrowing Spouses and Other Family Members)

For all other family members and non-eligible non-borrowing spouses, the loan generally becomes due and payable upon the maturity event (e.g., borrower's death). In this scenario, heirs typically have a few primary options to address the reverse mortgage debt:

  1. Repay the Reverse Mortgage: Heirs can choose to keep the home by paying off the reverse mortgage balance. A key feature of HECM loans is that the amount due cannot exceed the home's appraised value, even if the loan balance is higher. This is known as the "Non-Recourse" feature. Heirs would pay the lesser of the outstanding loan balance or 95% of the home's appraised value. This repayment can be financed through a new mortgage, other funds, or by selling other assets.

  2. Sell the Home: The most common option is to sell the home. The proceeds from the sale are first used to pay off the reverse mortgage. If the sale price is less than the loan balance, the FHA insurance covers the difference, provided it's a HECM loan. If the sale price is more than the loan balance, the remaining equity goes to the heirs.

  3. Deed the Home to the Lender: If the heirs do not wish to keep the home and the sale proceeds would not cover the loan amount (or they prefer not to manage the sale), they can choose to deed the home back to the lender. This absolves them of the reverse mortgage debt, and they receive no proceeds from the property.

Comparison of Options for Heirs

Feature Repay Reverse Mortgage Sell the Home Deed Home to Lender
Goal Keep the property Generate proceeds, pay debt Avoid debt, relinquish property
Cost to Heirs Amount due (lesser of balance or 95% appraised value) Potential selling costs (commissions, closing costs) Generally none (unless taxes, insurance unpaid)
Equity/Proceeds Retain all remaining equity Keep any proceeds exceeding loan payoff None
Timeline Must be completed within specified timeframe (typically 6-12 months) Must be completed within specified timeframe (typically 6-12 months) Faster resolution, avoids selling process
Ownership Heirs become full owners Heirs manage sale, transfer ownership to buyer Ownership transferred to lender
Recourse Protection Protected by non-recourse clause (if HECM) Protected by non-recourse clause (if HECM) Protected by non-recourse clause (if HECM)

Steps for Family Members When a Reverse Mortgage Becomes Due

When the maturity event occurs, the reverse mortgage servicer will typically send notifications to the estate or known heirs. It's crucial for family members to act promptly.

  1. Notify the Servicer: Inform the reverse mortgage servicer of the borrower's death or permanent move. Provide a copy of the death certificate if applicable.
  2. Understand Your Options: Work with the servicer to understand the outstanding loan balance, the value of the home, and the available options for heirs.
  3. Consult Professionals: Consider consulting with a financial advisor, estate planning attorney, or real estate agent to evaluate the best course of action for the estate and heirs.
  4. Execute a Plan: Whether deciding to repay, sell, or deed the property, follow the servicer's instructions and timelines to complete the chosen option.

Important Considerations

  • Timeline: Heirs are typically given a timeframe, often 6 to 12 months, to decide on a course of action and complete the necessary steps. Extensions may be possible under certain circumstances.
  • Maintaining the Property: While the loan is being settled, it's essential to continue paying property taxes, homeowner's insurance, and maintaining the home to prevent foreclosure.
  • Appraisal: An appraisal will be necessary to determine the home's market value, which is critical for calculating the payoff amount under the non-recourse provision.

Conclusion

While a family member generally cannot "take over" a reverse mortgage in the sense of assuming the existing loan and continuing draws, an eligible non-borrowing spouse has specific protections under current HECM rules to remain in the home. For other family members or heirs, the process involves settling the loan, typically by repayment or selling the property. Understanding these options and acting proactively are essential steps to navigate the complexities of a reverse mortgage upon the borrower's passing or departure. Seeking professional guidance ensures the best outcome for the estate and the family.

For more detailed information, consult the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) resources on Home Equity Conversion Mortgages.

Frequently Asked Questions

No, an heir cannot assume a reverse mortgage in the same way they might assume a traditional mortgage. A reverse mortgage becomes due and payable upon the death or permanent departure of the last surviving borrower. Heirs must repay the loan, sell the property, or deed it to the lender.

If that family member is an eligible non-borrowing spouse listed on the loan documents, they may be able to remain in the home after the borrower's death. Otherwise, the loan becomes due and payable, and the family member would need to vacate, repay the loan, or the property would be sold.

An eligible non-borrowing spouse is a spouse who was married to the borrower at the time the HECM was originated, remains married, occupies the home as their principal residence, and meets other HECM requirements. They can defer the loan's due date upon the borrower's death.

Not necessarily. If it's a HECM loan, heirs are protected by the non-recourse feature, meaning they are only responsible for repaying the lesser of the outstanding loan balance or 95% of the home's appraised value to keep the home. If they sell, the proceeds up to that amount repay the loan.

Heirs typically have between 6 to 12 months from the date of the borrower's death or loan maturity event to decide their course of action and finalize the repayment or sale of the property. Extensions may sometimes be possible.

If the home's value is less than the loan balance for a HECM, heirs are protected by the FHA insurance. They can either sell the home for 95% of its appraised value (or the loan balance, whichever is less), or deed the home to the lender without personal liability for the shortfall.

Yes, heirs can often obtain a new traditional mortgage to pay off the reverse mortgage and retain ownership of the home, provided they qualify for the new loan based on their own income and creditworthiness.

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