Formal and Technical Terms: The Septuagenarian
On a technical level, a person in their seventies (from 70 to 79) is referred to as a septuagenarian. This term is derived from Latin and is part of a series of decade-based labels, including sexagenarian (60s), octogenarian (80s), and nonagenarian (90s).
While grammatically correct, using "septuagenarian" in casual conversation is uncommon and can sound overly formal or even condescending. Its primary use is in formal writing, medical contexts, or academic settings.
Choosing the Right Everyday Language
In daily life, a direct, formal label is often unnecessary. The best approach is to consider the context of your relationship and the situation. The most respectful option is almost always to use her name.
Consider the Context
- For strangers: In public or professional settings, it's appropriate to refer to someone as a senior or older adult. These terms are widely understood and generally considered respectful. Avoid labels like "elderly," which many find outdated or associated with infirmity.
- For acquaintances: If you know her but aren't close, you might refer to her as a "woman in her 70s." This descriptive phrase is neutral and accurate without being overly clinical.
- For family and friends: Never use a generic age-based label for someone you know well. Use her name, or if appropriate, a familial term like "Grandma" or a respectful title like "Mrs. Smith." The key is personalization and respect.
The Shift Away from Outdated Labels
Our culture's understanding of aging is evolving. Today, a 70-year-old woman is far from the stereotypical image of a frail, inactive person. Many are active, vibrant, and engaged members of society. The language we use should reflect this modern reality.
Using a phrase like "our septuagenarian yoga instructor" highlights an impressive achievement for someone of that age. However, in most other cases, it's best to let her accomplishments speak for themselves rather than defining her by her age.
Respectful Alternatives and How to Use Them
| Term | Best Usage | When to Avoid | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Septuagenarian | Formal writing, medical records, legal documents. | Casual conversation with individuals. | Often perceived as overly formal or technical. |
| Senior / Older Adult | Public or professional settings when a general term is needed. | Describing specific friends or family members. | Widely accepted and respectful; gender-neutral. |
| Elder | Spiritual or cultural contexts where the term signifies respect. | General use; can be seen as "othering". | Be mindful of cultural significance. |
| Her Name | All personal interactions with a woman you know. | Never. Always use her name if you know it. | The most respectful and personal approach possible. |
The Psychology of Age-Based Labeling
Social psychologists and marketers have been creating age categories for decades. These labels often carry stereotypes, both positive and negative. While some people embrace labels like "senior," others prefer to be seen as individuals, not as members of a demographic.
By prioritizing personalization and respect, you can avoid reinforcing potentially harmful stereotypes and treat the person as a whole individual. This is a fundamental aspect of healthy aging and senior care—focusing on the person's identity, not just their age.
Conclusion: Prioritizing Personalization Over Labels
Ultimately, the most important lesson is to treat a 70-year-old woman with the same respect and individuality you would anyone else. The formal term is "septuagenarian," but it is rarely the most appropriate choice in casual settings. By using alternatives like "older adult" when necessary, and her name whenever possible, you can show genuine consideration and acknowledge her for who she is, not just for the number of years she has lived.
For more information on age-inclusive language, see the resource provided by Washington University's Institute for Public Health: Age-inclusive language: Are you using it in your writing and everyday speech?