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How to Tell if Someone Is Starting to Get Dementia: Early Signs and Next Steps

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With over 7 million Americans aged 65 and older living with Alzheimer's, a form of dementia, recognizing the early warnings is crucial [1.3.7]. Knowing how to tell if someone is starting to get dementia involves spotting subtle shifts in memory, behavior, and thinking patterns.

Quick Summary

Look for persistent changes that disrupt daily life, such as memory loss of recent events, difficulty with familiar tasks, confusion with time or place, and new problems with words [1.2.6].

Key Points

  • Memory Loss vs. Normal Aging: Dementia-related memory loss disrupts daily life and involves forgetting recent events entirely, unlike occasional age-related forgetfulness [1.2.4].

  • Difficulty with Familiar Tasks: A key sign is a new struggle with lifelong habits, such as following a known recipe or managing finances [1.2.5].

  • Mood and Personality Shifts: Look for unexplained changes like increased anxiety, suspicion, depression, or a notable loss of interest in hobbies [1.2.3, 1.2.6].

  • Language Problems: Frequent trouble finding the right words, following conversations, or substituting incorrect words are common indicators [1.2.4].

  • Disorientation: Getting confused about the time of day, the season, or getting lost in a familiar neighborhood is a significant warning sign [1.2.6].

  • Importance of Diagnosis: Early medical evaluation is crucial to rule out treatable conditions and to allow for future planning and access to potential treatments [1.2.4].

In This Article

Understanding the First Signs of Dementia

Dementia is not a single disease but an umbrella term for a range of progressive neurological disorders affecting the brain [1.2.6]. It's more than occasional forgetfulness. The key is to notice a pattern of cognitive and behavioral changes that are severe enough to interfere with daily life [1.2.8]. Early signs can be subtle and vary greatly, but they often involve more than just memory loss [1.2.5].

1. Memory Loss That Disrupts Daily Life

One of the most common signs of dementia is forgetting recently learned information [1.6.7]. While it's normal to forget an appointment and remember it later, a person with dementia might forget things more often and not recall them at all, even when prompted [1.2.4]. They may also repeatedly ask the same questions [1.2.5].

2. Difficulty with Familiar Tasks

A person in the early stages of dementia may find it hard to complete daily tasks they have performed their whole lives [1.2.5]. This could manifest as trouble preparing a familiar recipe, managing a budget, or getting lost while driving on a familiar route [1.2.4, 1.2.3].

3. Confusion with Time or Place

Losing track of dates, seasons, and the passage of time is a significant warning sign [1.2.6]. Individuals with dementia can become confused about where they are or how they got there, and may even believe they are in a different time of their life [1.2.4].

4. New Problems with Words in Speaking or Writing

Those with dementia may struggle to follow or join a conversation [1.2.5]. They might stop in the middle of a thought and have no idea how to continue or they may repeat themselves. Finding the right word can become a frequent challenge, and they may call things by the wrong name [1.2.4].

5. Misplacing Things and Losing the Ability to Retrace Steps

Anyone can misplace their keys, but a person with dementia may put items in unusual places (e.g., a wallet in the freezer) [1.4.3]. More importantly, they lose the ability to retrace their steps to find the missing item and may accuse others of stealing [1.6.7].

Distinguishing Dementia from Normal Aging

It is crucial to differentiate between the signs of dementia and typical age-related changes. Dementia is not a normal part of aging [1.4.2]. The table below highlights key differences.

Feature Normal Aging Potential Dementia Sign
Decision Making Making a bad decision once in a while [1.4.6]. Consistently demonstrating poor judgment and decision-making [1.4.6].
Memory Sometimes forgetting names or appointments but remembering them later [1.2.4]. Significant memory loss, especially of recent events, that impacts daily life [1.2.3].
Language Occasionally having trouble finding the right word [1.2.4]. Frequent difficulty holding or following a conversation; substituting words [1.2.4].
Familiarity Feeling weary of work or social obligations at times. Withdrawing from social activities and hobbies they once loved [1.2.6].
Task Completion Needing help sometimes with new technology or complex settings. Struggling with familiar tasks like following a recipe or using a TV remote [1.2.8].
Orientation Forgetting the day of the week but figuring it out later [1.4.6]. Getting lost in familiar places and feeling confused about the date or season [1.2.6].

Key Behavioral and Psychological Changes to Watch For

Beyond cognitive symptoms, psychological shifts are also common. Look for:

  • Changes in Mood: A person with dementia may experience rapid mood swings for no apparent reason. They can become confused, suspicious, depressed, fearful, or anxious [1.2.4].
  • Personality Changes: They may become uncharacteristically irritable, agitated, or apathetic [1.2.3]. Sometimes, a previously shy person may become more outgoing and disinhibited [1.2.4].
  • Loss of Initiative: A person may lose interest in hobbies, social activities, or family gatherings [1.2.6]. They might require cues and prompting to become involved in activities [1.2.4].

When to Consult a Doctor

If you notice several of these signs in someone, it is important to encourage them to see a doctor for a thorough evaluation. Early diagnosis is critical for several reasons:

  1. Rule out other conditions: Many conditions can cause dementia-like symptoms, including thyroid problems, vitamin deficiencies, and depression, many of which are treatable [1.2.4].
  2. Access to Treatment: While there is no cure for most types of dementia, some medications can help manage symptoms or slow the progression of the disease [1.6.2, 1.4.5].
  3. Future Planning: An early diagnosis allows the individual and their family time to plan for the future, including legal, financial, and long-term care decisions [1.2.4].

Suggesting a doctor's visit can be difficult, especially if the person is in denial or unaware of their symptoms. One approach is to suggest a check-up for a different, acknowledged health concern, like blood pressure, to get them in the door [1.2.4].

Conclusion

Recognizing the early signs of dementia requires observing persistent changes that go beyond normal aging. Paying attention to memory difficulties, challenges with daily tasks, confusion, language problems, and shifts in mood and personality is key. While noticing these signs can be frightening, seeking a professional medical diagnosis is a vital step toward managing the condition, accessing support, and planning for the future. For more information and support, consider reaching out to the Alzheimer's Association [1.5.2].

Frequently Asked Questions

Dementia is a general term for a decline in mental ability severe enough to interfere with daily life. Alzheimer's disease is the most common cause of dementia, accounting for 60-80% of cases, but there are other causes like vascular dementia and Lewy body dementia [1.2.8].

There is no single test. Doctors use a combination of methods, including a medical history, physical exam, laboratory tests, cognitive testing to assess memory and thinking, and sometimes brain imaging (like CT or MRI scans) to make a diagnosis [1.2.4].

While there's no sure way to prevent dementia, research suggests that managing risk factors like high blood pressure, maintaining a healthy weight, staying physically and mentally active, and not smoking may help reduce your risk [1.4.1].

No. Minor memory lapses, like forgetting where you put your keys or a person's name temporarily, can be a normal part of aging. Dementia involves more significant and persistent cognitive decline that affects your ability to function independently [1.4.4].

Dementia is more common in people over the age of 65. However, it can also affect people in their 30s, 40s, or 50s, which is known as younger-onset (or early-onset) dementia [1.3.7, 1.2.8].

Choose a calm time and place. Express your concerns using 'I' statements, like 'I've noticed you've been having trouble remembering things lately, and I'm worried.' It can also help to suggest a general health check-up with their doctor [1.2.4].

There is currently no cure for most types of dementia, including Alzheimer's disease [1.6.2]. However, some medications can help manage symptoms, and some dementia-like symptoms caused by other conditions (like vitamin deficiencies) can be reversed with treatment [1.2.4].

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Medical Disclaimer

This content is for informational purposes only and should not replace professional medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider regarding personal health decisions.